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Sandra Oliver
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SHOWING HOSPITALITY
When our children were young, maybe 3rd and 6th
grades, we were asked by the elders of our home congregation to
provide transportation for a group of preachers who were in our city
for a week-long lectureship.
It was our responsibility to get them to all of their appointed
classes, back to their motels, and to the monthly preachers'
luncheon. We kept the church van at home to accommodate their needs.
The morning of the preachers' luncheon, we were preparing to leave to
pick up the visitors. My husband went out to the van to get
something, and much to his surprised a man was asleep on one of the
seats.
When my husband opened the door, it woke the man up. Both of them
were startled; and my husband said what anyone would say, "Who
are you, and what are you doing in this van?"
The man
barked his reply, "Who are you?"
After both of them got their composure, Bob inquired as to how the
man ended up in our van. The man told him that he had been
hitchhiking on the interstate, and his ride let him out close to our
street. It was after midnight, and he was tired. When he saw the van
with the church's name on the side, he reasoned that surely whoever
lived there was religious and would give him a chance to explain before
calling the police.
Bob brought him into the house, showed him where the bathroom was so
he could clean up; and he instructed me to cook him some breakfast.
While all of this was going on, our children were outside telling my
mother about this "bum" that was having breakfast in our
kitchen. Mother lived next door to us, and she had been outside
working in the yard as this scene unfolded.
My mother was not known for trusting people, and she was on the phone
to me in a flash encouraging me to either call the police or allow
her to do so. Her reasoning was that he could return later and hold
us at gunpoint, rob us, or murder us; you can imagine all the things
she thought he might have in mind for us!
I cooked the man some eggs and toast and made him some coffee. While
he was eating, a terrible thought went through my mind. I had left a
necklace on the bathroom sink, and I was terrified that he might have
taken it.
I immediately went into the bathroom, and there lay my necklace just
as I had left it. Nothing had been disturbed except the towel and
washcloth Bob had given him to use.
When I got back to the kitchen, the man had finished his
breakfast and washed his dishes. Nothing else had been disturbed.
The man thanked us and walked out the door and continued his journey
not looking back. Of course, we never saw him again.
That incident has been an interesting story to relate, but it ended
very differently than another incident that happened about 2 years
before.
Our family was in Atlanta for the day, visiting the zoo and
picnicking in a park. I had packed just enough food for the four of us.
As we were eating, a homeless man came to our table and asked us for
something to eat. I explained that I had prepared just enough for our
family, and I didn't have any extra. He nodded and walked on through
the park.
We watched as he approached another family. They were kind enough to
provide him with something to eat. Needless to say, I felt
embarrassed.
Both stories stick in my mind anytime I read the story of the Good
Samaritan or when I read Hebrews 13:1-2. The writer of Hebrews says, "Let
brotherly love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to
strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares".
The good thing about these stories is that I learned some valuable
lessons.
- I can't
teach children the story of the Good Samaritan and not live it.
- I can't
teach hospitality and not show it.
- I can't
love my neighbor as myself and not be a good neighbor.
I think I will forever regret not feeding the man
in the park, and I hope I never let something like that happen again.
I hope your fall is filled with happiness and opportunities to show
hospitality to others!