Sometimes couples wonder “what went wrong in our relationship?”  Perhaps these ‘love birds’ in the Song of Solomon can offer a few tips.  Just in chapter one we see how considerate they were of one another.  Note these loving acts of consideration:

1)    He took the time to make sure he had a pleasing scent (1:3).  She did the same (1:12).

2)    While he obviously had a national reputation and major responsibilities (after all, he was the king!), he still took time for her (1:4a).

3)    He succeeded in making her feel like she was the only woman he cared about (1:8).

4)    When she had concerns about where he was and what he was doing, he didn’t chastise her for her lack of trust.  He lovingly explained where he would be and what he would be doing (1:7).  She was welcome to come join him, if she so desired!

5)    Both were very vocal in expressing how much they thought of the other.  Some say, ‘flattery will get you nowhere.’  Well, in the Song it worked well! He said she was “beautiful” (1:15), even saying it twice.  She said he was “handsome” and “pleasant” (1:16).  Of course these words were spoken in all genuineness and sincerity.

6)    She took the time to dress up, just for him.  Any guy will appreciate the effort his gal would make for his benefit, and visual pleasure! (1:9-14).

— Denny Petrillo