I can think of many older women (aside from my own family members) who made an impact on me. One of the most interesting was a woman named Eloise Ousley in Manchester, GA. When her husband would leave town, she’d invite my sister and me for a sleepover. Her kitchen table would be piled high with lots of wonderful treats for the three of us to enjoy during movie marathons. I didn’t think much of it at the time (except that it was fun), but now I realize how remarkable that was. We weren’t related, we hadn’t known each other long, and we weren’t peers. She was probably 50 or more years older than us. She just took an interest and wanted to do something special.

There’ve been women who made the Bible come alive in Bible classes. Women who took an interest in mentoring teen girls. Women who weren’t afraid to share their knowledge and skills with me when I was a newlywed. And women who’ve shown me living pictures of contentment, a quiet spirit, joyful service, and a Christ-centered marriage. And you know what? I’m STILL learning from them and I’m so thankful!

God designed it that way. He instructed the older women to teach the younger (Titus 2:3-5). He wants us to view older women as a valuable resource for wisdom, guidance, and encouragement. They are a precious, essential element for a healthy, growing church!

I know what you’re thinking. You ain’t no spring chicken. You’re right. I’m more of an autumn chicken. I’m not sure what season of chicken you’re supposed to be before you officially become the “older woman,” but I acknowledge I probably hit that category years ago. That means it’s my turn. And maybe it’s your turn, too. Now we get to create special memories for young people. And we get to try our best to be examples of light and faith and womanhood. Let’s prayerfully and humbly take up the torch!

“Older women…are to teach what is good, and so train the younger women…”

(Titus 2:3-4)